Hi @josemi21ninjas,
Sorry for the hiccups with Connect to Flywheel!
What is the site name on Flywheel? If you do not wish to disclose the name publicly, please open a support ticket here: https://app.getflywheel.com/contact
Also, can you please provide your local-by-flywheel.log file? See How do I retrieve Local's log file? for instructions on how to do so.